I've been a little under the weather this week. It didn't stop me from getting up to some sexy mischief today (for which, a big thank you to my co-conspirators), but sadly, it did prevent me from going to Bang 4 the Buck over the weekend. Since I consider this the most rockin' women's event of the year, that was a big disappointment. I heard plenty of stories from my girlfriends, but it's just not the same.

I did see Midori and KellyB briefly, as they were staying at Max's house. They are delightful house guests, and I was sorry to see so little of them this time. I also had the opportunity to serve at the dinner party Max threw for Midori. Buffie came along as my lieutenant, and together with Max, we hosted (and served sushi and sake for) nearly 30 people. I think everyone enjoyed the occasion, and from a hosting perspective, everything went smoothly. I have worked behind the scenes on several similar parties in the past, and am always refining the quantities, timing, presentation, house layout, and all the other little details that make or break a soiree. My goal for this kind of event is for all the pieces to fall into place so seamlessly that the guest of honor doesn't have to think about them - she can just show up and focus on being fabulous and interactive. I think I achieved that, and as a service bottom, I find that kind of success immensely satisfying.

I was not in service to Midori, of course - this was a service to Max, and the overarching theme of our service relationship is, "What can I do to make his life easier?" He gave me some specific tasks, but also the broad goal of a smooth and successful event, and meeting Midori's needs is part of that. Everything I do in service is one less thing for him to worry about, and I'm always pleased when I can see him relax about some aspect because he trusts that I'm handling it.

And can I just sing Buffie's praises for a moment? I could not ask for a better helping hand in the kitchen, or a lovelier co-hostess. She helped out with this party, not as a service transaction, but as a favor to me and Max because she is fond of us and because she is fabulous.